The Pearl that Broke Its Shell: A Novel

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And yet,I almost abandoned it in the beginning. The start wasn't too great and the endless repetition of certain phrases like Mader Jan and Pader Jan (for mother and father) was pretty irritating. Do you believe that Rahima and Shekiba’s stories end happily? What do you think became of them in the years after this book ends? Epstein, Elizabeth (2015-02-11). "An Interview with Nadia Hashimi, Author and Girl Advocate". Girls' Globe . Retrieved 2017-10-27.

I have a rule that I do not rate a book unless I read more than half and it is valid for this book as well. The rule does not mean that I will no write a my thoughts on the bit that I read. An afghan woman is like a pearl imprisoned in the darkness of an oyster. However, some of them are shell breakers, and start rolling towards the light! The detailed and rich prose ensure that the reader walks away with a much deeper understanding for a country we only see through the constant wars and upheavals in the media.I've always been equally fascinated and horrified by the struggles and lives of afghan women and how they continue on as bravely as they can in the face of horrible injustices.

Rahima is struggling with a drug addict father and the traditional structure of Afghani society, which prohibits her from leaving home without a male family member. As such, Rahima and her sisters rarely leave the house, even for school. Her aunt Khala Shaima hopes to help Rahima by telling her the story of Shekiba, who dealt with many of the same issues that Rahima faces by using an ancient custom, bacha posh, which enabled her to get around the restrictions placed on Afghani girls. Bacha posh allows female children to become sons whereas they are dressed and treated as boys until they reach marriageable age. Khala Shaima uses the story of Shekiba to teach Rahima not only how to be a bacha posh but to impart to her niece something different than the traditional role of women, rather, she tells a story of empowerment and strength. This story contains all the elements that make a book a winner: smells, tastes, colors, emotions, history, traditions, politics: everything a good book needs to become a great one! Rahima became so real that I wanted to write her a letter after closing the book! Although it is a fictional tale, written with such grace and integrity, it portrays enough of reality to leave the reader informed and wiser in the end. I simply loved this book. As a consequence for staying a bacha posh for too long and for disrespecting her mother, Rahima is married off to Abdul Khaliq, a warlord to whom Arif, Rahima's father, feels indebted. Part of the deal is for Rahima's two older sisters, Parwin and Shahla, to be married off as well to Abdul Khaliq's cousins. They are married off on the same day, much to the despair of their mother, other sisters, and Khala Shaima. Hashimi was born on December 12, 1977, in Queens, New York, to Afghan parents. Her parents immigrated to the United States in the early 70's. Her mother obtained a master's degree in civil engineering in Holland. [ citation needed] [4] Book Genre: Adult, Adult Fiction, Book Club, Contemporary, Cultural, Fiction, Historical, Historical Fiction, NovelsRahima meets the other wives' children. Hashmat is Badriya's son, and he is about Rahima's age. When the two meet, they recognize each other from when Rahima was a bacha posh. She is embarrassed, and at the same time missing that time in her life. Rahima is treated as a servant for Badriya and her mother-in-law, who regularly treats her like an embarrassment to the compound.

Forced marriages of very young girls,domestic violence,a warlord and the happenings in a king's harem make for a compelling mix. As a bacha posh, Rahima feels free being able to wear pants and joke around with boys her age. She is only uncomfortable when she's approached by older men in the street when she is running errands. In fact, Abdul Khaliq is one of the men who has his eye on Rahima when she is a bacha posh. However, she stays a bacha posh longer than is traditionally accepted, thus angering her father, who is an opiate addict who barely pays attention to his family but is still easily shamed by any inappropriate behavior by his daughters and/or wife. I haven't found a book by Nadia Hashimi that I haven't liked. Maybe it is because I have a preference or fondness toward fiction set in the Middle East or maybe it is because Nadia Hashimi woos me in such a way with her writing, that it is impossible for me to put a book by her down.The Pearl That Broke Its Shell," tells the story of a young girl in present day, Rahima. As she goes through various hardships, her Khala (aunt) Shaima tells Rahima the story of her great-great-grandmother, whose story bears resemblance to Rahima's. In the novel, Rahima's story is told in the present day; Shekiba's story is told as it happened in the late 1890s and early 1900s. Since the girls' stories are told concurrently, in this study guide, both stories are discussed in the present tense.

These are the stories of two women,a century apart. Both are compelling and it's good to see that after all the hardship they have to endure,there's hope. Johnson, Ted (2018-01-20). "Women's March DC: Trump Calls It a 'Perfect Day,' Protesters Say He's 'Got to Go' ". Variety . Retrieved 2018-02-26. A century ago, Bibi Shekiba, the great-great-grandmother of the girls, worked the fields, side by side with her father. In 2008, Hashimi and her husband moved to Potomac, Maryland. Her husband, a Maryland-based neurosurgeon, arrived in the United States as a refugee, a fact she shared when speaking against the Travel Ban 3.0 at a protest in front of the Supreme Court. The protest was also attended by Congresswoman Judy Chu and Congressman Dan Kildee. [14] Debut Afghan-American author Nadia Hashimi’s THE PEARL THAT BROKE ITS SHELL, the entwined stories of two Afghan women separated by a century who find freedom in the tradition of bacha posh, which allows girls to dress and live as boys…until they are of marriageable age.

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Women are still seen as property of the men they marry, have little access to education, and often have nowhere to turn in the face of abusive marriages. I really enjoyed the story and the parallels between the two characters, but the message or lesson I was supposed to take away was a bit on the nose sometimes. The Writing Shekiba envies the women of the harem: “At least they belonged to someone. At least they had someone to care for them, to look after them.” Do you think the King’s concubines live an enviable life? Are they better or worse off than women who live outside the palace walls?